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>Spike wrote:
>> >> Of course they are important. I've never denied that. It still remains >> to be seen whether or not the human impact is a great as natural >> factors. And before scientists were predicting a greenhouse effect, >> they were predicting a nuclear winter, and had all manner of >> documentation to support what they claimed would happen. > >That's either disingenuous or ignorant. The "nuclear winter" scenarios >were a prediction of what would happen after a full-scale nuclear war. >They had nothing to do with global warming, CO2, or climate change. This time it was my turn to "misspeak", for it was the global cooling/ ice age hypothesis. I admit the "nuclear" winter was related to war. However, to again resort to insult is unbecoming. Simply pointing out the error would have sufficed. You might consider that, while you might not alter someone's viewpoint with discussion or debate, you most certainly will never change it with insult, or inferring a sense of superiority over the person you are attempting to persuade. Nor is it good to lose your cool simply because another will not accede to your being heavy handed in style. Recall the saying that people listen harder to the quiet voice, and shun the one who shouts. As a patrolman dealing with drunks who are shouting at me, I learned that by whispering, the drunk very often would quite down in an attempt to hear what I was saying. Once he (or occasionally a "she") was quieted, the rest of the contact became one of cooperation. Naturally, there were those who were not affected by any degree of civility. Still, it never helped for me to get upset or frustrated with either type over anything they said or did. Would you yell at a child to get cooperation? It might work. But would they mind out of respect or out of fear? As a parent, I've found it easier to lead a child to agreement with what I would wish them to do, rather then to force my will upon them. Even better that they should think it their idea. Like the definition of tact and diplomacy. To tell someone to go to hell in such a way that they think it their idea and they enjoy the ride. Granted there may be far more who see things as you do on a number of subjects, than see things as I do. Yet, if you desire to convert anyone, you might want to consider trying to understand their position, why they hold it, and map a route to help them see your position happens to be a more accurate one. Like teaching a child how to change a tire on a car. Help the child understand why they should do one task before doing another. For example; for safety. But do not be surprised if the child continues to want to do it their own way. These are simplistic examples to be sure. But I have found they have a more positive response than throwing a lot of facts and figures at someone and expecting them to "get it". It did little good to quote passages from the vehicle code when a parent was driving around with a child on his or her lap. But a calm transfer of information regarding what might happen in the even of a sudden stop or accident generally got the response of, 'I never thought of that...'. Of course, there were those who got upset for even being stopped. You can't win them all over to see things as you do, and there is no point in getting frustrated or losing sleep over it. There is a point where you must simply accept that the person you are attempting to convince will not change their view. And when that has been realized, you quit beating the dead horse, and hope to convince the next. As an example; I tried to convince you of several points regarding the Kerry situation. You negated those points. I did not continue to attempt to alter your position. I had provided the benefit of my experience and I could see there was no point in further discussion as your mind was clearly set an not open to any other possibility. I would have been pleased if you had at least considered the possibilities I presented, just as I have considered what has been said regarding global warming, wherein you have made some interesting points for me to investigate. I have not rejected your points. I have simply raised questions that a reasonable person might ask (i.e. the testing of the waters for acidity, or why a majority of scientists supported global cooling and now support global warming based upon the same causation). That said... it's now time for me to drive my beatermobile, smoking all the way, to the store to purchase some steaks and charcoal for this afternoon. : ) I hope your day turns out as well as mine. On Sat, 02 Jul 2005 02:46:13 GMT, rw > wrote: Spike 1965 Ford Mustang fastback 2+2 A Code 289 C4 Trac-Lok Vintage Burgundy w/Black Standard Interior; Vintage 40 16" rims w/BF Goodrich Comp T/A gForce Radial 225/50ZR16 KDWS skins; surround sound audio-video. "When the time comes to lay down my life for my country, I do not cower from this responsibility. I welcome it." -JFK Inaugural Speech |
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